Cross-Server LFG Rules to Live By
My mage hit 80 roughly a week before 3.3 dropped so, I’ve been spending a LOT of time in the new random LFG system emblem farming to gear her up.
(Protip: group with a tank or a healer before queuing up. It goes a lot faster.)
In my travels through the system and meeting folks from other servers, I’ve come across several things that I thought I would share with you guys.
- Cheap buffs are perfectly fine. Some folks have no issues using their reagents on the full awesome party-wide buffs but if you want to conserve instead of using reagents every 20 minutes or so, that’s completely okay and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
- Gear judging is not your job. You may snicker at the hunter wearing a spell trinket or the ret pally wielding a sword and board, but to comment on it and make them feel like a total loser doesn’t help. Yes, you guys will probably never see each other and what you say is simply a passing comment but keep them to yourself unless you are of that class in the group – pally to pally, hunter to hunter. Otherwise, you just come off as an obnoxious know-it-all elitist.
- For the love of pete, greed on the stupid frozen orbs. No one “needs” them anymore. Period.
- Speaking of loot (and here’s my huge thorn in my side), the new need before greed/disenchant system is nice. It has a couple of hitches such as treating greed and disenchant rolls equally. So the days of needing for main spec and greeding for offspec are gone. Most groups have adopted a “need for both specs” attitude which I have no problem with IF the person that is needing for offspec waits to see if anyone else needs for main spec before rolling. Twice yesterday I watched people need on an offspec item against someone who was needing on it for mainspec, win, then drop group or argue as to why they “deserve it” when I said something. One argument presented to me was “Well, that is normally my MS. I’m in here in my OS.”
Fantastic. How are any of us supposed to know that’s your offspec and you’d like to roll mainspec on drops when there is obviously someone there that needs it for the mainspec they are running AT THIS POINT. *shakes fist*
The other argument I hate is “It’s just a heroic.” Well, yes. If this were any heroic under Trial of the Champion or the new ICC 5mans I wouldn’t even open my mouth. But seeing is how ToC drops 219 gear on heroic and the new 5mans drop 232 gear on heroic, it’s a bit of a bigger deal. People trying to gear up quickly to raid need this gear more than anything that will drop from any other heroic.
My point is this – if you’re in LFG for both your specs and the random system asks you to go in on your offspec but you’d like to roll need on mainspec, say something to your group. Don’t steal loot from your tanks or your healers because that’s exactly what it looks like.
All in all, the random cross-server LFG system does not give you permission to be a total douche to everyone you meet. Just because you will likely never see them again doesn’t mean karma isn’t a bitch. Run your heroic, do your job, say hi, be fair with loot rolls, and leave. I’ve seen personally and heard from guildies more and more asshats showing up in heroics.
Maybe we’re all just unlucky and get the local nuts but maybe there’s more to this and people need to just pay a little more attention to how they act. And, if you witness something like this – unfair loot rolls or someone just being a prick to someone else – say something. You don’t have to do what I did and really lay into someone (to be fair I’m pregnant and a bit pissy nowadays – my poor husband) but speaking up briefly will help over time.
Enough folks speak up on a regular basis, the better it can get.



