Excuse Me While I Pontificate
Warcraft is a global phenomenon. Some may roll their eyes when they hear anything having to do with the game and yet others may immediately start regaling anyone who will listen with tales of raids, rewards and wipes. WoW has permeated a vast majority of the facets of our culture and has become (intentionally or not) a standard by which other MMOs are measured, an ever-raising bar, and a game that millions of people complain about yet still play relentlessly.
If you ask any WoW player what the game is to them, you will get a wide variety of responses. It’s a social medium, it’s a place to relax, it’s a place where I don’t have to be so shy, it’s an escape, it’s a challenge, it’s a place to keep in touch with long-distance friends, it’s a place to stretch my creative legs, etc.
The one phrase that will, however, incite some sort of reaction is: “It’s just a game.”
You would be hard-pressed to find anyone who can, with a straight face and total believability, say that and truly, honestly, sincerely mean it.
Monopoly is just a game. Scrabble is just a game.
Now, I’m not saying that WoW is a new form of life itself (although some may see it as so) but it has transcended the phrase “just a game” into something more – even for the most casual of player. There is an attachment that grows. Even people who have left the game for one reason or another will have a story or two they will never forget.
I was thinking about this aspect of the game as I, my husband, and our friends build this guild and attempt to lead it in a fun and fair fashion. Sometimes you have to, as a leader, take a few steps back and try to see how your guild members see the game. It’s not just a game to them but what level are they on? Having this knowledge or, at the very least, attempting to understand this knowledge helps tremendously when it comes time to ask your members to do or not do something. How will they react if you ask them to save a certain Raid ID for a guild run and then the guild, due to unforeseen circumstances, doesn’t get to go? Does any potentially negative reaction keep you from asking in the first place?
In our guild, no. We ask, and then if something happens, we deal with it as best we can. But some guild leaders may hesitate. There is a fine line between playing WoW to have fun and playing WoW because your guild is a job. Some leaders may not want to turn the guild into a job for any of their members – do this, this and that; but don’t do that, that or this – because they fear that they will be seen as dictatorial.
Honestly, you’re going to be seen that way by at least one person any time you make any rule that someone doesn’t agree with. My advice? Make your rules but keep them simple, succinct and easy to follow. And keep the list to a minimum.
WoW is more than a game to most everyone who plays it, even on the smallest level. As a guild leader, figuring out what level(s) your members are on is key in effectively and fairly running a guild; and making sure that you have the right members in your guild.




I think that transcends WoW, too. You mention Scrabble and Monopoly, but I’m sure there are people who view those games with a similar fervor to the way we view Warcraft.
I can, honestly and with a straight face, say that I believe football is just a game (to me).
There are bars I wouldn’t dare to say that aloud in, because it’s NOT just a game to them. It’s not just a game to the players, the owners, the fans, the vast majority of people I meet day to day.
I’m a WoW player. I will always believe that there is something special about WoW which sets it apart from other games.
I would expect football fans to feel the same way about THEIR chosen game.
I wish more people would equate the two in their minds – “football” and “Warcraft”. Why? Because if you tell someone you’ve got season tickets to a football game and thus can’t make a last-minute social engagement, people cheer and crush beer cans on their heads in celebration (I kid! I kid!). But if you say you can’t because you’re on a serious raiding team for Warcraft, you’re viewed as a deviant basement-dweller.
I agree. More often than not, I find myself making up something else as to why I can’t be at something. Date night or I promised my mom I’d call her or anything that pops into my head. I’ve experienced my fair share of eye rolls to know that saying I can’t go out because I’m raiding isn’t the best idea. Unfortunate but true.
My husband’s favorite excuse is “bowling league”.
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I’ve considered making him a bowling shirt with our guild name embroidered on the pocket.
Classic! You definitely need to make him a shirt.